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Borelli stars in the NOH8 Campaign

Okay well maybe co-stars.   Along with a team from Christopher Street West / LA PRIDE, I recently was able to participate in a NOH8 campaign photo shoot.  Adam is a genius and Jeff is amazing.  What started out as a personal reaction to the passage of Proposition 8 has turned into a global, and visually stunning, reminder that Equality will be achieved when we show who we are.  Check out all of their work at NOH8 Campaign.  And to see all the Christopher Street West photos click on that photo to join the Facebook Fan Page.

Dustin Lance Black on Marriage Equality

DLB posted this on Huffington Post:

Almost 32 years ago, in San Francisco’s City Hall, having just defeated anti-gay proposition 6, Supervisor Harvey Milk stood in his office debating what the next step in the gay and lesbian movement should be. Per usual, he found himself in a heated debate with the other “gay leadership” who insisted he was moving too fast. He insisted it was time to march on Washington D.C., to follow in the footsteps of every successful civil rights struggle in this great Nation’s history and garner federal attention.

Not 24 hours later, Harvey Milk was tragically taken from us, and with him vanished the indomitable spirit, strength, and unwillingness to back down necessary to make this a federal fight.

Finally, 32 years later, in the city he loved, we are fulfilling Harvey’s dream.

Over the past months I have had the pleasure and privilege of meeting the plaintiffs in Perry vs. Schwarzenegger. Their love is true, their families are strong, and to hear their stories is to know they deserve full recognition of their love, both for themselves and for their families. The time has come for the world to meet Kris Perry and Sandra Stier, Paul Katami and Jeff Zarrillo. Their stories are our stories, ones of finding love with another person, of overcoming adversity, and of the strength and importance of family.

But now their stories must take a place in history, next to Brown vs. Board of Education and Loving vs. Virginia, in order to confirm what our great Constitution already tells us is true: that separate isnot equal, and that all men and women, regardless of skin color or sexual orientation, deserve equality.

To those who have said, “Wait,” I say, Gay and Lesbian people should not be forced to wait years to be treated equally under the law. By straining to avoid our federal Constitutional arguments, we only reinforce the false notion that our arguments lack merit. We reinforce the lies and myths and stereotypes that have been forced upon us for generations. We send a signal that we must not truly believe we are equal. The truth is, we are equal, and our love deserves equal recognition and protection under the law. Truth is on our side, and justice, but time is not.

We cannot wait.

We cannot wait for more children to be born into this country hearing that they are “less than,” that this country considers them inferior or second class, that their love is not worth honoring. If we do, how can we ever expect them to contribute, to thrive, or even just to survive?

We cannot wait for one more young person to hear this terrible news and take his or her own life, or have it brutally taken from them.

Now is the time for this federal challenge.

I’ve said this so many times before, but never has it seemed more appropriate than it does today. To many of us, this challenge sounds like debate and politics, tedium and hard work, but to the young people out there who are afraid, who tune in and hear that we have taken this bold new step, it will sound more like: “You are not less than. You have brothers and sisters, gay and straight, black and brown and white, thousands of us. And your struggle is our struggle, and your fight is our fight, and very soon, we promise you, you will be equal citizens, and you will be free.”

Created Equal?

And so if the Supreme Law of the United States states….

We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness.

and…

The same sentiment appears in the Massachusetts Constitution of 1780, which predates the U.S. Constitution by seven years, and was the first of its kind in the world.

Article I. All men are born free and equal, and have certain natural, essential, and unalienable rights; among which may be reckoned the right of enjoying and defending their lives and liberties; that of acquiring, possessing, and protecting property; in fine, that of seeking and obtaining their safety and happiness.

 

What is the hold up?  I want my unalienable rights! 

LA PRIDE 2009…one week out

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Fantasia, Chelsea Handler, Silent Celebration and an amazing Pride Finale

LAPRIDE.org for details.

California financial crisis would get much needed help from Marriage Equality

Hmmm, I wonder if all these Californian’s who stand against Marriage Equality think about this for a moment.  California is in financial crisis.  Teachers and other City & State workers are losing their jobs, having their salaries cut, and others are still at risk.  Social Services have been cut already.  Imagine the money that could be immediately pumped into CA with Marriage Equality.  Remember folks, Massachusetts didn’t “burn in damnation” these past 5 years.  And what of Iowa, Vermont, and the other states that are upholding constitutional rights?  They will get an economic boost too!   I posted on this back in October, Equality = Cash for CA ($63 million).  Oh, California, you wanted Governor Movie Star and that didn’t work out so well.  You narrowly voted against equality, seems like that is not helping too much either.  Might be time to get on board!

Young Girls for Marriage Equality

A study says the over 12,000 same-sex marriages performed in Massachusetts since 2004 have pumped over $111 million into the state’s economy.

The report from the Williams Institute at the UCLA School of Law says a typical same-sex couple spent about $7,400 on their wedding, with one in 10 couples spending over $20,000.

A second study by the same group found that young, highly educated people in same-sex relationships were 2.5 times more likely to move to Massachusetts after 2004 than before gay marriage became legal.

M.V. Lee Badgett, a researcher at the University of Massachusetts and a study co-author, says allowing gay couples to marry has helped businesses in tough economic times.

 Sunday marks the five-year anniversary of Massachusetts recording its first same-sex marriage licenses.

Hypocrisy gets a new friend in Miss California/Marriage Equality debate…

So Alaska Gov Sara Palin is defending the (so-called) Miss California‘s stance against Marriage Equality.  According to the statement released on her website (please don’t go there, it only gives them traffic):

I applaud Donald Trump for standing with Carrie during this time. And I respect Carrie for standing strong and staying true to herself, and for not letting those who disagree with her deny her protection under the nation’s First Amendment Rights.

I’m sorry?  What?  So let me get this “straight”, Palin & Prejean want protection under their First Amendment Right of Freedom of Speech while standing on a platform to deny others their Constitutional rights? Ah, you got to love the hypocrisyDon’t take away my guaranteed right while I am denying yours

Straight Girl for Civil Rights 11-15-08

Not all Miss California’s are religiously-biased

Former Miss California defends same-sex marriage
April 21, 2009
Author: Russell Schoch
Two winners of the title of Miss California, both Christian, one now a pastor in Massachusetts, have different views on same-sex marriage. The 2009 title holder, Carrie Prejean, in response to a question about same-sex marriage at the Miss USA pageant in Las Vegas on April 19, said that her belief, backed up by her faith, was that “a marriage should be between a man and a woman.”

Miss California of 2003 (and winner of the Miss America swimsuit competition in 2004) is Nicole Lamarche, who won her titles while studying for master of divinity and master of arts degrees at Pacific School of Religion in Berkeley, CA. Married to fellow seminarian Jeremy Nickel, Nicole now serves as minister at Cotuit Federated Church in Cotuit, Mass.

“As a pastor and a former Miss California, I am often asked to interpret what the Word of God has to say on a particular subject,” Rev. Lamarche says. “I am quite confident that God prefers that we human beings stick to speaking for ourselves. And yet there are occasions when God’s Word is used as a weapon, and I feel compelled to speak.

“In the past few days, much has been made of the words of Miss California USA, Carrie Prejean. She stated that marriage is between a man and a woman. I write not in response to her opinion, but rather about her comments that followed: that the Bible condones her words. She said, “It’s not about being politically correct, it’s about being biblically correct.” While this sentiment is shared by many who seek to condemn gay people and gay marriage, citing pieces of the Bible to further one’s own prejudice fails to meet the Bible on its own terms.

“Most people seeking to condemn gay people point to the Book of Leviticus, where we read that men lying with men is an abomination. However, we rarely hear of other verses found in the book of Leviticus that are equally challenging. For example, Leviticus also tells us that eating shrimp and lobster is an abomination. And that a person should not wear material woven of two kinds of material—an impossible mandate for a pageant contestant!

“In Paul’s letter to the community in Corinth we read, ‘For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church….’ And yet these words have not prevented Christian denominations from ordaining women, such as myself. Sadly, the Bible has been used to further prejudice throughout history. We have used it to permit ourselves to enslave people; to conquer and kill; and to denigrate the earth.

“The truth is that it is difficult to know for sure the intentions of the biblical authors, but we do know something about God. Those of us who know God through Jesus of Nazareth know that he went to great lengths to express God’s love to people who were labeled as outcasts. He spent time with children, prostitutes, and lepers, all of whom were labeled as outside of the grasp of the Holy. As we continue to seek God’s vision for us as a nation grounded in a love for justice, I pray that we might move closer to the cause of grace.”

Mary A. Tolbert, executive director of the Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies in Religion and Ministry at Pacific School of Religion, where she also teaches biblical studies, agrees with former student Nicole Lamarche. “As the New Testament gospels tell us, Jesus summarized all the law and the prophets into two central commands: love God with all your being, and love your neighbors as yourself,” says Professor Tolbert.

“Even our interpretations of the Bible should be held to the standard of these two founding principles. To deny to gay and lesbian families the protections, rights, responsibilities, and respect of civil marriage—rights and respect that heterosexual couples value greatly and hold fully for themselves—very clearly to me violates the command to love your neighbor as yourself.

“If the married state is something you want and value for yourself, you should also want and value it for all your neighbors, gay and straight alike. I think that the current Miss California needs to think through the biblical commands of Jesus in considering this issue; with prayerful thought, I believe she might come to a very different conclusion. Many people reading the Bible already have.”

Pacific School of Religion is a multidenominational Christian seminary that has been preparing bold leaders for historic and emerging faith communities since 1866. The Center for Lesbian and Gay Studies in Religion and Ministry was founded at Pacific School of Religion in 2000 and was the first such center at a seminary.

WeHo Weddings continue…

After two productive meetings at Joey’s Cafe, I dashed over to city hall.  I had witnessed a number of couples and friends in their wedding finery and had to check it out.  Yes, more than three months after the landmark ruling allowing all couples to marry in California, the city is still performing ceremonies.  Ralph and Denny, along with their son Ryan and friend KC, were in from Altadena to be wed.  You can still obtain your marriage license through the city but please visit the city web site to obtain the information required.  www.weho.org  WeHo is, however, booked for civil ceremonies up through election day, November 4th.  The site offers alternate locations for those couples wishing to be wed prior.  Congratulations to Ralph and Denny (10 years strong) and to all of the couples that now have the freedom to marry!

Marriage Equality = Cash for CA

Sixty-three million, eight-hundred thousand dollars!  A study conducted by the Williams Institue at UCLA School of Law estimates that over the next three years the California economy will benefit by $63, 800,000 from marriage equality through weddings, tourism, and jobs creation.  When you are talking to your allies in the community you may want to remind them of this economic bonus in addition to supporting equal rights for all.  http://www.law.ucla.edu/williamsinstitute/home.html

Marriage=Money

Marriage=Money